Saturday, November 9, 2013

Uncovering the secrets of tango sensuality

That's it! I set myself on a journey to uncover the secrets of tango sensuality/sexuality. I've heard so many stories about what tango is and what tango is not. I've seen people scared of the level of intimacy. I've been so many times puzzled by the way tango can connect people. I asked why. Still no answer.

So, what is it all about? I don't believe that there is a definite answer to the questions I ask. But, there are answers out there and I intend to find them.

I want to ask how much people in tango are lying others and themselves that tango has nothing to do with sensuality or sexuality? How much the dancers use the dance to engage in sensual or sexual relationship with a girl/man? Does dancing with a man makes a women more open to sexual or sensual arousal or relationship? How much dancing tango can sexually arose the dancer? What are the dirty moves dancers use: dirty touches in “forbidden areas”, strong breathing, whispering “dirty” words ...? Is just dancing technically good enough to consider the dancing sensual or sexual? What is the most inappropriate sensual/sexual behavior on the dance flor? Does this “dirty” or sensual dancing adding some value to the dance? Is not breaking the embrace after the song finished sensual move? Is dancing more tandas in a row means (5, 6, 7... or more) sensual or sexual energy between dancers? What “what happens on the dance flor stays on the dance flor” means? Is tango crush or tango love - tango or love?

Wish me luck!